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Being Swami Sivananda

part two

July 15, 2010 by Swami Sivananda
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Swami Sivananda continues with part two of his recently published story by Alternatives Journal. In this conclusive segment he speaks of Swami Radha’s encouragement and constant reminder that the power of choice was his greatest asset in taking his next steps.

For a full overview of the making of this article, listen to Swami Sivananda’s podcast at the end of this piece.


Fully committing to a new direction was difficult. Over the years, I had invested myself wholeheartedly in a marriage, community and career, doing worthwhile things in the company of good people. But I’d been planting seeds for this transition for a long time. By then, my yoga studies spanned 20 years, and I had a profound appreciation of the discipline as the science of life.

In the 1980s, I’d found a Western teacher, Swami Radha. Relentlessly, she encouraged me to pull back the veil to find the purpose of my life, free from preconceived ideas, independent of what anyone else thought or said. She constantly reminded me that the greatest power is the power of choice.

I approached yoga with the same intensity that I applied to my work. When serving on Tom’s staff during the Mackenzie Valley Pipeline Inquiry in the mid-1970s, I was up before dawn to join a Sikh community in their practices. Later, when working for the Canadian Arctic Resources Committee (CARC), I was immersed in a Vedanta correspondence course. When I found myself on the Arctic Islands, I had the pilot tuck my assignments into his jacket to be mailed from Resolute Bay. When I finally returned home to Ottawa after that unsettling Bank meeting, I began to explore the idea of moving to the Ashram permanently. Patricia and I had lived there in the mid-1980s as she recovered from cancer. What the Ashram stood for resonated with me deeply, but it was not an option for her now. We were at cross-purposes, pulled in opposite directions. Then I had a dream.

Swami Sivananda Saraswati of Rishikesh, India

There is yogic way of working with dreams, similar to the Jungian approach, which is helpful in releasing a subconscious kind of knowing. My dream startled me awake. In it, Swami Sivananda, Swami Radha’s Indian Guru, turned to me as shimmering light, and said, “You did the report. Now move on.” It electrified me for days and was my first confirmation. Others followed.

By the fall of 1992, Patricia and I had agreed to separate. In preparation for my move to the Ashram, I tidied up my affairs in Ottawa. Retaining the minimum amount of cash I’d need to tide me over temporarily, I turned over our home and assets to Patricia. I was sure this was the right course despite the advice of lawyers and friends who wondered what I would do with no income. Moving to the Ashram was a huge experiment with an uncertain outcome. I knew what I was leaving behind, but not what lay ahead. I was aware that something had to change. I would start with myself. This wasn’t a casual idea – something to think about or study further. I had to act. I knew from the bottom of my being that I had to try or I’d never forgive myself.

Even with the support of the Ashram community and the steadying influence of daily practices during those first months, I found that the pull of the past, the emotionally familiar, to be too much. I cut off correspondence with Patricia and others. I had to find something in myself, alone. A rational explanation of this came much later, from Carl Jung, who once wrote, “It takes a lot of courage to take the unconscious seriously and to tackle the problems it raises.”

By spring, I felt the start of a new knowing. Coincidentally, Tom sent a note telling me that the Bank and India had parted ways on the Sardar Sarovar Projects due to the problems we’d identified. It was tragically inevitable, and costly in human and environmental terms. To me, it was another sign of an institutionalized culture that couldn’t listen, even to itself. I had doubts in those first years. But my environmental advocacy days had taught me to persist even when things seemed hopeless. Somehow support always appeared – often in unexpected ways.

Swami Radha: "You can't jump over your own shadow."

Well into my second year, I was in yet another low, facing strong resistance and doubt. No matter how many times I’d been told that getting into and out of these places of bewilderment is a necessary part of penetrating deeper into the mind, I just couldn’t hold this perspective. That changed when I received a letter from my father, one of his last before he died. Until then, he’d been unable to understand my move; my father saw only the abandonment of success.

He wrote: “I’m in the midst of reading Jean Vanier’s Community and Growth. I get a glimmer of his meaning even if his challenges are scary. I thought the attached excerpt spelled out the basis of your own momentous decision with great insight.” I unfolded the photocopy that he had attached.

It read: “To enter into a new covenant and belong to a new people, a community with new values, we have to leave another people – those with whom we have lived – with other values and other norms: wealth, possessions, social prestige, revolution, drugs, delinquency, whatever. This passage from one people to another can be a very painful uprooting, and usually takes time. Many do not achieve it, because they do not want to choose or cut themselves off from their old life. They keep a foot in each camp and live a compromise, without finding their real identity.”

The chanting from the temple softens and fades, leaving only the intermittent wash of water on the stony beach below. Swami Radhananda’s clear voice rises between waves as she leads the Divine Light meditation. She carries on the teachings of Swami Radha who founded the Ashram and died in 1995. With my eyes closed, I follow along, “… tense … relax … concentrate … see … feel … ever growing into Divine Light.”

Swami Sivananda at Yasodhara Ashram

Reflecting back on those events from almost two decades ago, I asked myself: Am I different? What have I learned? Am I at peace? Good questions that never seem to have a final answer. But who am I answering to in the meantime? Could anyone really understand and does it matter?

Patricia and I are friends in a way that we had never imagined possible. And yes, the Ashram has received prestigious environmental awards that make me proud. I know that an enriched life starts from and ends on the inside, whatever the outward signs of acceptance or accomplishment. It is so simple and so easily forgotten. I remain a beginner, but I can see that by continuing in this way, I will be able to look back over my life from my deathbed and say, “That was just great, I did it!” Is this not part of being at peace with oneself?

Holding the evening’s stillness, I open my eyes and watch the sun set. The rock at my back retains the day’s warmth. Next week, I will lead a 10-day retreat. Many young adults will be looking for something more. They will be passionate about life, relationships and this planet. They will leave enriched, each in their own way. They may learn what Swami Radha taught me: You can’t jump over your own shadow. Mostly, they’ll relearn what it is to simply listen – inside. There is a place that knows. And we can choose.


Interview with Alternatives Journal host Peter Stock on the creation of this article:
Alternatives Journal Podcast – Swami Sivananda

Now the secretary treasurer at the Yasodhara Ashram Yoga Retreat and Study Centre near Nelson, BC, Swami Sivananda (formerly Don Gamble) was a well-known and highly respected environmental professional. He was a member of the Berger Inquiry into the Mackenzie Valley Pipeline and director of policy studies at CARC. He joined Berger in Alaska as co-ordinator of the Alaska Native Review Commission before returning to Ottawa to establish the Rawson Academy of Aquatic Science and its spinoff consulting arm, Resource Futures International.


8 Comments »

  1. Thank you for sharing a small part of your spiritual journey. I remember saying to you one time that I didn’t want to get to the end of my life and looking back be filled with sadness that I had let this life pass without knowing my own self and what the purpose of my life is. The longing and desire to know is the fire that moves me forward, using the teachings to bring new awareness and connection in my life.

    At the time, you said, ” well you better get going then as time is passing” or something very close to that. you are a great teacher, you opened many doors for me over the years. Om Om

    Comment by Pat Lundy — July 15, 2010 @ 4:36 pm

  2. Thank you Swami Sivananda, for sharing. It’s reassuring to know that navigating one’s way through the times of bewilderment are not only inevitable, but a necessary part of knowing one’s mind. Thank you for your example.
    Danuta

    Comment by Danuta Karpinska — July 19, 2010 @ 12:43 am

  3. Namaste,
    I am pleased to see that the article is helpful. It is interesting how bringing some of life’s experiences together like this is so nourishing in itself. Sw S

    Comment by Swami Sivananda — July 21, 2010 @ 6:44 am

  4. Namaste Swami Sivananda, thank you for inspiring and bridging out to a wider audience with this article. Om Om!
    What speaks to me from the interview, is the idea of listening to the deeper pull of the heart, as opposed to a more intellectual version of ‘what I should be doing to help.’ It’s so interesting, and an inspiration to me, that in stepping away from your environmental work, which at the time may have seemed self-indulgent, you were stepping deeply into the path of selflessness. Giving the heart a chance to lead, and led to a way of serving that is really from the heart. This gives direction and speaks to my heart. Thank you for sharing,
    Claire

    Comment by Claire — July 23, 2010 @ 7:01 pm

  5. Jai Sivananda, Jai!

    Comment by James — July 24, 2010 @ 11:13 am

  6. As I read I noticed a tensing and relaxing in my body as the words pressed upon something in my chest.

    om om

    Comment by andriko — July 30, 2010 @ 2:56 pm

  7. I am deeply nourished by this story and recognize forgiveness flowing thru my body systems. Having just come thru divorce and my father’s death I rest quietly here in Toronto drinking in the memories of my time at the Ashram in community and communion. I wonder what my next steps will be. I wonder and give thanks for the power of choice and right now know it is correct for me to remain here in this city standing in the Light. Namaste

    Comment by Karuna — August 27, 2010 @ 7:16 pm

  8. I finally sat down to hear your podcast, Swami Sivananda. Listening to your inspiring story brings peace to my heart. You are the person who first taught me the Divine Light Invocation at the Ashram — a practice that consistently helps me through my life. As I learn more about your choices, and your very human emotions while living them out, my admiration for you deepens. You make all things seem possible if we set an intention and keep stepping forward.

    Thank you for your example, and for your willingness to speak about your personal experience for the benefit of others.

    Om Om
    Terri

    Comment by Terri — September 15, 2010 @ 2:12 pm

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